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Additional Notes for After Your Relationship Reading
After
your reading, please make copies of your cassette(s) and charts,
two sets if you are sharing them. The cassettes are unique,
so, a master copy in a safe place is good. Keep your chart
originals protected in your Astro Portfolio. Remember to put
tape over where the protection tabs were removed. Remove the
tabs on your copies so they can't accidentally be erased.
Listen to your tape soon again, both privately and together.
It's great to have the chart copies to make magic reminder
notes on. Talk things over, compare notes. Schedule another
listen before important upcoming times indicated by astrology,
before a significant event already scheduled, or as either
of you may need it.
It is important to document, take care of your life and also
to honor the other's/your partner's privacy. With your partner's
permission, ask a trusted friend, parent, who would be supportive
to both of you, if they would be willing to listen to a copy
of your tape. Get those precious insights from ones who know
you! They can see your blind spots, support you as you may
need in ways you might not realize you could ask for.
With
your partner's permission, take your charts/tapes to other
astrologers. It is invaluable to get second opinions . Take
them to your astrology friendly minister, teacher or counselor.
Many therapists are astrology knowledgeable. If you are considering
going to a counselor, you can ask if they know astrology,
get one specially gifted to your needs. Ask your friends who
have had successful couples counseling for such a referral.
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Explore
the magic of the power of two! The charts with the
concentric rings labeled 'Tri-unequal Wheel' in the
bottom right corner, have your chart in the center,
your partner's around it, how your partner impinges
on you; then the reverse, yours around your partner's,
how you impinge on them. The third, outmost wheel, has
the current Transits, what's happening now.
For
your convenience, the second pages of your comparison
charts, labeled 'Synastry Grid 2' in the bottom right
corner, graphs all the aspects between your two charts,
yours to theirs, theirs to yours. This way you won't
overlook an important aspect. Delightfully informative.
Useful. Easy to look up.
Special
relationship books you may enjoy….
Astrology
of Human Relationships, Sakoian & Acker, practical,
lots of text for the $
How
to Handle Your Human Relations, Sargent, small but deadly
accurate!
Relationships
& Life Cycles, Arroyo, a how-to-compare-charts book
Relating,
An Astrological Guide to Living with Others on a Small
Planet, Greene (a Brit), Jungian
Saturn,
A New Look at an Old Devil, Greene again, excellent
section on Saturn in relationships
As
always, I think it is good to look up your comparison
information in at least three sources. You can buy or
borrow a couple, from friends or the library, to get
started; play on the internet. If you get steeped in
one person's way of thinking you tend to take that bias.
There are so many ways relationships can play out. Depends
on background, cultural and family differences, literally
chart differences by sign and house, your progressions
and/or transits, location, family or community supportiveness,
maturity, etc.! Astrologers' interpretations vary because
of these same factors in their own charts/lives! With
several books and an inquisitive mind, you stay open
to more creative solutions, add thoughts of your own.
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And
there is always private tutoring
if you get stuck!
Certain
aspects are simply difficult. All the rest of a comparison
may be wonderful, but that one aspect may be the reason one
partner leaves. Sometimes there are just too many difficult
aspects no matter how informed you are, how much counseling
you have done, how mature you are. Nothing wrong with the
people, just more different than is fun. Relationships are
learning places, a part of your soul's growth. Often, compatibility
is not the issue, understanding is everything. Be good to
each other.
Each
of you is unique. Differences can be celebrated and delegated!
Thank God you don't have to do everything yourself! Each person
gifts our path; let them give their gift! The soul knows its
perfect choices. Each of us is on our soul's very own timing,
doing the best we can. Your wisdom and strengthening, practice
and power, is to choose with whom and how long that makes
sense.
Readings
of comparison charts with parents and past lovers, you/your
partner/your children are most informative and helpful. Track
both yours and your partner's tendencies, family interplays.
Every
relationship has special purpose. Our partners help us see
what we can't see by ourselves. Explore the adventure! You
have nothing to lose, everything to gain! Everything you learn,
you take with you, separately or together! The whole is greater
than the sum of the parts!!!
I
pray you take the very best care of yourselves and each other,
Precious Ones. Stay in your hearts.
Thank
each other every day. What we are grateful for grows.
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